The Sick Mentality of People

I really don't know why do people have this twisted thinking that when someone cares about another person from the opposite sex, the second person starts thinking that the first is attracted to him/her, and wants to have a love relation, and so on.

well its not always like this, sometimes we meet people and we just want friendship, ok I agree that sometimes we like the other person and care about them, but its nothing more, don't go sitting alone thinking "ah he is talking to me daily, oh he gave me a nickname, he must be in love with me, he is sad because I didn't call, he is definitely in love with me, how am I going to get rid of him?"

you don't have to get rid of anyone because the other person most probably is not in love with you and doesn't want more than friendship, I found this way of thinking in both sexes but I found it more in girls, mostly the beautiful ones, that when guys talk to them for a while, a twist and what the hell??? no I don't want to have you as  my girlfriend, friend would do just fine, you beautiful but so what I know others.

not to take sides in this matter also you can find it in handsome guys a lot, specially who has their nose up in the sky, ah she loved me after meeting a girl for the first time he starts saying that, no idiot she could have despised you and she didn't want to show it and kept a complimentary action in respect of the person who introduced her.

stupid and arrogant, I hate this mentality and its the on going mentality in our society, well hell no I wont tolerate it, and in a personal note when this happens with me I dump the girl even as a friend and seize talking to her at once, cause this is sickness, people grow up and open your minds we are in the 21century and the world is advancing but we are still in the stupid mentality not to mention other aspects such as if a guy kisses a girl, ohh she is a whore that's it she has been kissed, well stupid mentality all over again what's wrong with a kiss its transforms feelings, what's wrong with anything.

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Anonymous said…
after reading your post ... i can assure that u have a lots of relataions with opposite sex... so u want that type of environment... but think once ... when u love someone and someone else is going to kiss her.. then how u feel...

Ok ... leave this.. let me take another example... let u r a father of a beautiful girl ... and but i want to kiss her, play badminton and table tennis with her... wants to take her to movies...
then truly speak ... r u going to bear all these...

i think u got ur answer about the sick mentalilty of the people... but for me this is not sick mentality... this is what called deadly love and care for someone...

-- Amar Kumar
Abu Gaby said…
you took only the last two lines, respect is transmitted through us it is all in the intention of the act more than the act itself, i know deadly love and care and i respect it because it is pure.

if love is contaminated then that becomes sick.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts Amar

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